Hi, I’m Ella.

I like the honest version better.

I’m interested in the parts people usually skip over: how long you give something a chance, what effort really looks like, how to tell excitement from anxiety, and when a “maybe” is starting to feel like a no.

Some entries are about dates. Others are about boundaries, confidence, being single, or simply getting better at noticing what I need instead of waiting for someone else to define the relationship for me.

I don’t have a formula. I’m just paying closer attention now.

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